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Chapter 3:

Becoming the YOU you are to be.

After you have accepted yourself and your beliefs have become your own, through the integration of value judgements, find the courage to act on them.  I realize this is easer said than done, and some people require professional assistance  to overcome dramatic events in their lives that weight down their potential.  You can't erase these events from your memory, but you do not need to carry them on your shoulders as evidence that you are flawed.  

You are NOT flawed!  You simply had a negative experience, more likely as the victim than the perpetrator.  Left untreated, the memory can rear it ugly head and undermine your interactions with others.  Once it is recognized and accepted, you can manage the feelings you get when your button gets pushed and react in the proper manner." 

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Be Who You Are!

We are so happy to announce the upcoming release of "How Values Are Practical"!  Ten core values are brought to life through the words and experiences of hugely successful individuals from all walks of life.  Look for it the Spring of 2017!


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Chapter 2

"BE WHO YOU ARE!"

.....However, I had to overcome a sense of inadequacy seeded long ago by feedback that I was not good overall.  When you have never played a school sport, you feel foolish trying to fit in with schoolmates who already have an understanding of the game.  Add mockery, schoolyard teasing and insults to the mix  and the result is either a child who quickly improves through natural ability and fits in, or one who retreats and avoids the pressure.  I decided to retreat.  ...

I have never been a cold and calculating person.  However, I have never waited long for an opportunity to manifest itself, and I created opportunities as I went along.  The fuel that drove me to earn two under-graduate degrees, an MBA, an honors degree from a national banking school, and certificates in other post-graduate work was partially driven by the belief that I was not good enough.

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WHY do people fail?

We are so happy to announce the upcoming release of "How Values Are Practical"!  Ten core values are brought to life through the words and experiences of hugely successful individuals from all walks of life.  Look for it the Spring of 2017!

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From Chapter 1

WHY DO PEOPLE FAIL?

"But primarily, I think people fail because of a fear of failing.  YOU have heard this before, but let me qualify the phrase "fear of failure."  People driven by this fear are so focused on doing everything possible to avoid a setback that they loose balance with their personal, familial and spiritual lives.  I know this type of person well.  I have seen him in the mirror for 40 years.  Some people will tell you, "you have to have balance".  The problem is that they can't tell you how to obtain balance, and more than likely, they have their own struggles with the scales of life.

Success is an ongoing series of steps towards a desired goal that, in time, allows us to look back and gain confidence for future steps.  I often tell team members who are anxious about off-target results, "If the the past has been a glorious path, why would the future be any different?"  This is something I also have to self-coach on when my anxiety builds around some less-than-miserable result or a new challenge".

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What this book in NOT about.....

We are so happy to announce the upcoming release of "How Values Are Practical"!  Ten core values are brought to life through the words and experiences of hugely successful individuals from all walks of life.  Look for it the Spring of 2017!

Luis Lobo


For now we will revisit key content from "It IS Your Attitude" over the following weeks.


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From the introduction

What this book in NOT about...

* A magic potion to make everything alright.  Our lives will never be completely right.

* A multistep program leading to some dramatic change or understanding that aligns the stars and planets.  Some people can change through these programs, but many loose heart when results are not what they think they ought to be.

* A trait on Pollyanna attitudes focusing on feel-good behaviors.  There are times when you'll feel bad and you should - until you change the outcome.  


In the final analysis, your attitude determines your effectiveness in everything, every time! LGL www.LuisLobo.Biz